DRASH FROM RABBI ALLISON CONYER
Following Israel’s strikes on Iran
“Living with Cognitive Dissonance”
“And so, on the 13th day of the 12th month – that is, the month of Adar – when the king’s command and decree were to be executed, the very day on which the enemies of the Jews had expected to get them with their power, the opposite happened, and the Jews got their enemies with their power” (Megillat Esther: 9:1).
And so, on the 28th day of the second month – that is, the 11th of Adar – when the strongest and most vicious regime, the notorious enemy of Israel and the Jewish people everywhere, the very regime that has financed and trained terrorists groups including Hezbolah, Hamas, and the Houthis (among others), the very regime that murdered tens of thousands of its own people for protesting the government for more humane treatment of its citizens, on that very day in broad daylight, the unexpected happened, and the Jews with their greatest ally got their enemy with their power.
I was always taught that Judaism instils a sense of compassion for those who are oppressed or less fortunate (Ex. 23:9), not to judge anyone one until you are standing in their shoes (Pirkei Avot 2:5) and to pursue justice for all (Deut. 16:20). We’re also taught “Do not rejoice when your enemy falls” (Proverbs 24:17). The Talmud even chastises the Israelites when they emerge singing and dancing from the red sea, celebrating their freedom as the Egyptians (their oppressors) are saying: “My creatures are drowning in the sea, and you sing songs?” (Megillah 10b; Sanhedrin 39b).
And yet, on Purim, we are literally commanded to celebrate the downfall of our enemies – Haman and his 10 sons (innocent or not, we only presume), and all the people armed for the destruction of the Jews. The idea of rejoicing in the collapse of anyone is challenging to me. I like to think of the Jewish people, and our religion and teachings, to be that of rodef shalom – pursuit of peace and justice, not of hostility and aggression. And yet, in recent times, the international community has painted not just Israel, but all Jews as being a violent, aggressive and hostile people who cannot be trusted anywhere. Recently, a Reform synagogue in Canada was the most recently reported victim of a shooting, luckily no one was injured, even though the rabbi was still inside. Why?
I grew up challenging the notion that violence can bring about peace? It is an illogical concept. And yet, when Israel and the US launched a pre-emptive attack on Iran, it made sense to me. Totally illogical, yet perfectly sensible. How can we live peacefully in Israel, and as Jews around the world, when a violent, corrupt, authoritarian regime that has the wealth, the intelligence, the opportunity, and proven record to fund, train and support terrorist groups around the world for the sole, explicitly stated purpose of eradicating the Jews and the Jewish state, and have a proven record of oppressing and murdering their own citizens, how can we and the world stand idly by and do nothing? Negotiations did not work. Iranian citizens were continuously in harms way and the world did nothing. Iran’s proxis caused countless deaths and terror in Israel, Australia and around the world. So what do we do to pursue peace and justice?
We fight. We take down our enemy. We do not rejoice in the innocents who are dying for the peace and justice for others. We mourn the loss of innocent lives. We pray that our family and friends in Israel will be safe. We pray that the innocents in Iran, the entire Middle East and those vulnerable to the trickle down effects around the world will be safe. We pray for healing of bodies, hearts, minds and spirits. We do not take sides or blame others for seeing things differently. We remember our teachings of empathy, compassion and non-judgement. We express gratitude to Israel and the US and our allies for their brave pursuit of justice and ultimate peace. And we work to live with this cognitive dissonance as we navigate ourselves, our community, our nation and our people in this complex world. And we rejoice, and celebrate our survival, our strength and our perseverance. May our Jewish values continue to guide us and may our People always be a source of pride.
Rabbi Allison Conyer